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Christi Hegstad, PhD, PCC's avatar

I agree, Essentialism is such a helpful book/concept! The first thing that comes to mind when I think of it is a line you shared: "If you don’t prioritize your life, someone else will." Another book I appreciate in this area is The One Thing by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan - a pretty quick read and potential game-changer as well. Thank you for the thoughtful overview and great points!

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Kolina Cicero's avatar

Ooh, I haven’t read The One Thing! Looking into it now, thank you!

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Nicolle Sloane's avatar

Ya know, I was thinking maybe I needed to read this book, and as I read your essay on it, I realized I do most of these things, so I guess I'm an "essentialist." I have always been really good at saying "No" to things that I know I won't want to do. And when I have done things I knew I didn't want to do, I've always come away saying, "I was right. I shouldn't have done that." I still might read the book because it sounds like there is a lot I could still glean from it.

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Kolina Cicero's avatar

I'm amazed by people who are good at saying no to things they don't want to do! I get so worried my friends (or whomever) will be offended, and I often do things because I feel obligated. THIS IS NOT HEALTHY! So I'm trying to say no more, and the book has really helped me. I bet you'd enjoy it, even if you're already an essentialist!

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Nicolle Sloane's avatar

Honestly, I might say "no" more than I should; I sometimes wonder if it's a comfort thing for me at this point. I'd like to say yes to more things just so I can get out of my comfort zone.

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Kolina Cicero's avatar

I can absolutely see that, too. I challenge you to say yes to something you might not have otherwise this week!

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Thaissa Lara's avatar

Truly beautiful!

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Kolina Cicero's avatar

🥰🥰🥰

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Bronwen Keyes-Bevan's avatar

Love love love this, you're a beautiful writer and I can't wait to read McKeown's book x

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Kolina Cicero's avatar

Thank you! You of all people will really appreciate it.

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The Literary Assistant's avatar

Such a thoughtful post! Thank you for sharing.

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Kolina Cicero's avatar

Thank you for reading!!

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Megan J. Conner's avatar

I’m new to your publication so both of these titles are new to me. They look fantastic! I’ve added both to my TBR.

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Kolina Cicero's avatar

Oh fantastic! First of all, welcome! Thanks for being a part of this bookish community! And second, I’d LOVE to chat with you about both/either of those books once you read them. They are game-changers!

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Megan J. Conner's avatar

Sure! That would be great. I am on a waiting list for it at my library.

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Kolina Cicero's avatar

Amazing. Enjoy!!

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